A Life-Changing Lesson
- By President Matt Proctor
- Published 12 15, 2022

This is the story of a tall, dark-haired Germanā¦a short, Missouri redheadā¦a big, silver dishwasher...and a life-changing lesson.
Have you heard the crazy theory called ānominative determinismāāthe idea that some folks are attracted to certain jobs because of their name? These actual people serve as examples:
- A Wisconsin firefighter namedā¦Les McBurney.
- An Australian ophthalmologist namedā¦Dr. Seawright.
- A Detroit music teacher namedā¦Ms. C. Sharpe.
- A New York lawyer namedā¦Sue Yoo.
- My favorite fitting name: OCCās cafeteria manager isā¦Teresa Baker! (The Missouri redhead in our story.)
Teresa Baker really is an excellent bakerāshe once owned her own catering company. But if the word Teacher were a last name, that might fit her even better. OCCās student employees can tell you: Teresaās kitchen is a classroom, and school is always in session. I need your help to equip thatĀ classroom, but first, the tall, dark-haired Germanā¦
That would be Thomas Mergel. When he came to the U.S. as a German high school exchange student, Thomas lived with some Ozark grads and met Jesus. He ended up enrolling at Ozark in 2014. (When the lanky, 6ā5ā freshman stayed with our family over Christmas break, he sang āSilent Nightā for us in the original German.) Soā¦why is he still an Ozark student now, eight years later?
College students struggle with time management. They skip study time for friends, sleep, and moviesāwhich often lowers their academic marks. (I saw a dorm room poster that said, āType in āNetflixā to get 50% off your grades.ā) Thomas was no exception: working consistently and fulfilling responsibilities were challenges. He wasnāt ready for the discipline of college, so he left Ozark for a few years.
But now heās back as a student, and Thomasā best teacher might be Teresa Baker. When sheās not at Ozark, Teresa is helping her husband Ron on their farmāhogs, cattle, grain, lots of chores. She canāt be more than 5ā3ā tall, but as Shakespeare wrote, āThough she be little, she is fierce.ā āSheās got a strong old-fashioned work ethic,ā says OCC cook Kyle Kleespies, and since 2010, sheās brought that work ethic to the Ozark cafeteria.
Students love her. āBeing hungry college boys, my cousin Jake and I had a selfish motive at first,ā says recent grad Josiah Weece. āWe thought, āIf we talk to the cafeteria lady, maybe weāll get extra food.āā
But a real friendship quickly blossomed. āSheās not the stereotypical Hollywood cafeteria ladyāfrumpy, grumpy, more grunts than conversation,ā says Josiah. āTeresaās all hugs and smiles. She would ask about your day, and you felt seen and heard. She even came to my wedding.ā
Feeding 500 folks a day takes a team, and Teresa shows the same love to her student employees. āShe runs a tight ship, but she cares about us,ā says student worker Emily Todd. āWhen weāre having a rough day, she checks on usā¦then remembers to ask again a week later. When weāre running behind in the dish room, she jumps in and washes dishes with us. One time, I got hurt, and she drove me to the doctor.ā
Like our profs, Teresa knows sheās shaping students into servants: āWe lean hard into prayer together. As weāre working, Leah [caf staff] sets Scripture cards on the kitchen counter for student-employees to read and meditate on. And weāre teaching them skills that arenāt just for the cafeteria, but for their future ministries and families.ā Keep reading to learn how she shaped that tall, dark-haired Germanā¦
Since returning to Ozark, Thomas Mergel has worked in the cafeteria, mostly at the industrial-sized silver dishwasher. Watching Teresa, Thomas has certainly learned that a leader cares. āShe is gracious and hospitableāsheās invited us over to her house. One time she took James [a student worker from India] and me to an Amish market with her grandkids. She listens and loves.ā
But Thomas is a biblical communication major, and Teresa is also teaching him skills heāll need in ministry:
- Thomasā time management challenges? āWhen she heard I was behind on homework, she sat down to help me. She called one of my professors to tutor me, and she worked with me to create a study schedule.ā
- Struggles fulfilling responsibilities? āWhen I started, I had a hard time consistently appearing for work. Teresa sat me down and said, āEvery role on this team is important, and we donāt schedule you if we donāt need you. You canāt let down the team.ā
- Lessons on how to treat people? āWhen people drop their dishes off at my washing window, they sometimes say, āThank you.ā Teresa put up a sign to remind me to say, āYouāre welcome.āā
- Motivation? āShe wants us to work with excellence. Next to our clock-in, she put Colossians 3:23, āWhatever you do, work at it with all heart, as working for the Lord, not for menā¦It is the Lord Christ you are serving.āā
Speaking of fitting names: in German, Thomasā last name Mergel refers to a āfertile type of soil,ā and the seeds Teresa has planted in Thomas are bearing fruit. āIāve done well this semester,ā says Thomas. āIām more consistent with my schoolwork, weāre serving more people in the cafeteria than ever, and Iāve even made suggestions on improving our dishwashing efficiency that Teresa has implemented.ā
A tall, dark-haired Germanā¦a short, Missouri redheadā¦a big, silver dishwasherā¦and Thomas will tell you: the lessons have been life-changing.
Teresa has seen fruit in other students like Thomas. āI have a stack of notes at home kids have sent me through the years. They are treasures.ā Sheās not listed as faculty, but Teresaās kitchen has been a life-changing classroom for many. Will you help me equip that classroom for future students?
The dishwasher where Thomas Mergel works needs replaced. Our repairman has kept it patched together, but recently said, āItās time to get a new one.ā
Over Christmas break, weāre scheduled to have a new dishwasher installed at a cost of $27,000. Weāre also installing a much-needed charbroiler/grill at a cost of $10,000. Would you consider a year-end gift toward that $37,000 to equip our kitchen with a dishwasher and charbroiler/grill?
By the way, my own last name Proctor? In England, a proctor is a āhigh university official.ā (Maybe ānominative determinismā isnāt crazy after all.) As the āhigh university officialā here at Ozark, one of my jobs is enlisting financial support for our mission. So Iāll ask once more: Would you prayerfully consider a generous gift toward our Christmas break installation of a dishwasher and charbroiler/grill?
Thank you for considering such a gift. Not only will you help feed 500 of our 700 students, but for a few dozen student-employees like Thomas, youāll also help teach them skills theyāll need in ministry.
Can I mention one last fitting name? āYou are to give him the name Jesus because he will save his people from their sins.ā (Matt 1:21) This Christmas, letās celebrate our Savior! And Teresa Baker might remind us: when itās time to do Christmas dinner dishes letās pick up a dish towel and imitate our Savior.
Yours in Christ,
Matt Proctor
President
P.S. Teresa is retiring at the end of this year, and her cook, OCC alum Kyle Kleespies, will take her place: āHeās coming in so ready.ā Would you pray for Kyle as he carries on her work of food preparation and ministry preparation?